Dear Dr. Fields, I am a friend of Bonnie from Senior Moments and she forwarded your story about your Dad. In the story I don't believe you said his first name. My late husband Robert Goldman was born and raised in Shanghai 1940-1958. Long story. I would like to know where in Shanghai your Dad lived. I have a nickname in the Shanghai world SHANGHAILANDER BY OSMOSIS. I have done 20 years of research, interviews, presentations, and publications. Would like to know more about your Dad.